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Sexual Body Language Quiz

Are you a "sexpert" when it comes to sexual body language? Can you read the opposite sex? Guys, do you know the signs that a women gives when she wants you to make your move? Ladies, can you tell when a guy is lying? Take this short 10-question quiz and find out how much you really know.

For each question, please select the BEST response. (Note: Questions tend to get more difficult as you proceed.)

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Women tend to exhibit displays of flirting more than men.
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The Secrets of Sexual Body Language

You find yourself at a large party or a crowded bar. You arrive alone or with a couple of buddies. You would like to hook up with a member of the opposite sex, but don’t want to approach an unreceptive person and risk rejection or even embarrassment. So you look for signals...ah, a brief look, a faint glimmer of a smile...should I approach? After all, she did smile at me ... but what if that were just a friendly smile, not a “come-over-and-approach-me” smile? If I don’t approach, someone might beat me to it, or if I do, perhaps she’ll regret having encouraged me. And so, you find yourself plunged into the endless spiral of second-guessing yourself, quasi-paralyzed with uncertainty. Am I reading her right or not?! What to do...what to do...?

Well, there’s hope. Body language has been studied as scientifically, and there are certain cues that are innate, that the sender often isn’t even aware of. These powerful, often subconscious cues date back to before there was language and when the mating ritual was non-verbal. Deep within our genes we have this encoded knowledge which reason has blurred over into the realm of doubt. And many of us have to study that which came naturally to our prehistoric ancestors.

Fortunately, there is an excellent, well-illustrated book on this subject: Secrets of Sexual Body Language, which goes into personal space zones, the tell-tale signs of attraction, the dynamics of eye-contact, the little sexual come-on games that we unwittingly play, such as “peek-a-boo.” Just for the small price of a book, one can save a lot of agony, wasted time, and endless trial and error. Secrets of Sexual Body Language is a must have for any single man and women.

So, how much do you know about body language? Well, take our latest quiz and find out. If you score high, you might not need this book after all. However, even a virtual sexpert doesn’t know it all. If you score medium or low, I’d definitely make the nominal investment.

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Our first Live Chat "Hook up Club" meeting was a huge success. Quite a few people showed up and the male-female ration was right at 50-50!

The community spirit was great and the conversations stimulating. During the second session we talked about sex and, in so doing, learned from each other. For example, one of the ladies asked if guys preferred "bjs or the kitty." (Some of the responses might surprise you!) Several online "chatters" hooked up via private messaging as well for a more intimate one-on-one. In short, everyone had fun!

Note: Our second session gets more visitors, so if there's not much action during the first session, check back for the second! (Remember we're still growing.)

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In the hopes of encouraging more forum posts, BestSexSite.net is pleased to announce its next contest! This one runs two months and ends the 31st of July at 11:59 EST. As to whether the first prize will be $25.00 or $50.00 and whether or not there will be a second and third placed prize will depend on the total number of entries. In short, to participate, all you have to do is to post to any one of our numerous forums. It’s just that simple! This includes the Al Somers Sex Advisor Forum. In order to qualify, you must post at least one NEW topic.

The winner shall be determined by the following criteria:

Quality of post (Is the content pertinent to this site, interesting, informative, etc.?)
Quantity of posts: how many total posts you have.
Usage: This encompasses grammar, spelling, word choice, punctuation, etc.
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In short, the winner will be determined by an informal point system and will ultimately be determined by a mix of viewer reaction and “impartial subjectivity” on my part.

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Forum Post of the Week:

Best Chat Room Experience! (by Symbiotic Moon Princess)

I have never really had good feedback in chat rooms. Usually stupid people are just spamming ASL ASL at me and I don't really care to understand because it's a chat room. However, in this live chat meeting, the vibe was incredibly different! I really had a lot of fun and I made legitimate friends with people who understood the benefits, as well as limitations, of chat rooms. I was able to express a wide variety of feelings on multiple topics, and other people did the same as well! The chat room really helped me to understand the theme of this website. It's way more than just a dating site. It's a forum to explore sex in all aspects, through all perspectives.

The diverse take on sex from male and female eyes was very clear in the chat room. It was helpful for me to perceive how males perceive females perceiving sex. It was kinda funny...what people think about blowjobs/oral,bedbugs, trannies, love and intellect. I was happy to find that a majority of the chatters were actually pretty smart, and their opinions on sex were deep and experienced. The chat gave animation to people I had only seen post on forums, and it gave a whole new life and meaning to the profiles I've seen on this site.

I really enjoyed the chat room. Although I haven't physically met anyone I spoke to on Sunday, I made some great connections that I look forward to continuing in the future. I bonded with people that could offer me real insight and advice in my sex life, which is something I rarely find in this "youth culture". I also feel that in addition to making friends purely for internet relationships, it's also a good place to meet friends in the future- a lot of the chatters were from my home city!

Anyways, I encourage you to engage in the live chat sessions, especially if you have something you'd like outside opinions on.

~symbiotic moon princess

Blog - Post of the Week:

Up in Smoke: Holland's Newly Proposed Marijuana Law

The Dutch government is trying to pass a bill to prohibit foreigners from buying marijuana in Amsterdam’s famed coffee shops. The reason cited is rather lame: an apparent increase in drug related crimes in Holland’s southern cities. Dutch nationals and legal resident would still be permitted to buy marijuana but foreigners would be barred from such purchases! Hmmm...strangely inconsistent bill! One wonders if Holland is bending to foreign pressure.

Could the liberal, spirit of freedom that is Amsterdam be waning? Is the world at large getting more conservative? It appears so, judging from the sudden spike in ...conservative leaders worldwide, such as Steven Harper and David Cameron not to mention religious conservative candidates such as Mitt Romney. So what accounts for this increase in conservatism? Worldwide economic hardship, no doubt. When money is available, there tends to be more of a laissez-faire attitude; however, when governments overspend; when welfare subsidies seriously tax government financial resources; whole nations are forced to implement draconian austerity measures. When welfare and retirement funds dry up, and when illegal immigrants take jobs that were once completely overlooked by the local citizenry, laissez-faire policies and lax immigration laws tend to be transmuted to more rigid laws and general xenophobia. It’s human nature, apparently, to pull tight the reins of “immorality,” to curb the sexual and the sensual and to minimize “vice” when economic times are hard. One has only to compare the Great Depression to the Roaring Twenties for example. Yes, when times get hard, “liberalism” is stymied, skirt length increases, and a repressive atmosphere dampens a free-wheeling spirit. In the case of marijuana, it’s remarkable that a drug which is arguably less harmful than tobacco and alcohol and certainly less addictive should be illegal in most every country in the world! Why? No doubt, in part, because it is considered a “gateway” drug. What a splendid example of a logical fallacy: of course, most heroin users will have tried marijuana first, but the vast majority of marijuana consumers don’t “graduate” to heroin. It appears that Holland's proposed legislation is an ill-conceived, knee-jerk reaction, one which coincides with the apparent upswing of worldwide conservatism. I wonder what its enactment will cost in terms of lost tourist revenue? By joining the ranks of the cannabinol-phobes, the Dutch government is poised to take away that unique sense of freedom that is Holland, and with that, Amsterdam won’t be quite the same.