Talk Dirty to your man to really turn him on!
So, do you really want to turn-on your man? Well, one of the biggest turn-ons for men is dirty talk during sex. So why don’t more women do it? Perhaps it’s because dirty talk appears “sluttish” and you fear that you’ll turn your man off, or perhaps you don’t know what to say. Well, the good news is that talking dirty is easy. The key is to just say what comes naturally to mind without racking your brain for the “right words.” There is nothing like hot spontaneity at the right moment. Dirty talk is a double-barreled turn-on for men: The dirty comments themselves make men hornier and they provide the kind of sexy feedback that will get him harder and ever more into it with you. For example, saying “ah, I love it when you suck my tits like that” will likely get him rock hard and dying to enter you! At one level, just saying dirty buzz words such as “tits” will heighten your man’s sexual pleasure, and, at another level, you are letting him know that he is doing it right; and, moreover, it’s a tremendous turn-on to him that he is succeeding in driving you crazy.
Now, let’s say you want to have a really hot Friday night with your guy. Start by sending him dirty or suggestive text messages at work. Something like: “I’m thinking of you and it’s making me a little wet” should really get him fantasizing about you at work. (Just hope he’s not wearing beige pants.) Then when you’re with him that evening, wear something sexy. Have a little wine (but not too much) with him to loosen things up and put you in the mood, and then put on some soft music and slow dance with him. Shortly after you first start to dance, flash him some panties which will really drive him wild to see more. Then peal each others clothes gradually as you grind into him while sensuously dancing.
Once you are naked, let him know what pleases you; after all, he’s not psychic. Then, when you’re having sex, tell him are great his cock feels, tell him to do you harder to “fuck you like a stallion” as your groans drive him crazy with pleasure. After all, many guys prefer “bad girls” in bed, so just let him know how “bad” you can really get! The pleasure you will give your man by talking dirty will really pay off!
“An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away.” NHS pamphlet
In response to the U.K.’s alarming teen pregnancy rate, the highest in Europe, the NHS published a pamphlet for teens, entitled Pleasure, with the credo: “An orgasm a day, keeps the doctors away.” The pamphlet encourages teens to have safe sex, and, if no partner is available, to masturbate. Many adults find this alarming. Why? Sexual education platforms, aimed at teens, that preach abstinence only are absurdly unrealistic, since teens are bound to have sex if the desire is strong enough. After all, can one expect teens to stave off the effects of raging hormones, especially in a world in which sex is more visible than ever? The key to reducing teen pregnancies and S.T.D.s/S.T.I.s is education, allowing teens to make informed decisions. After all, that’s all any responsible society can do. Sex education should be no different than educating our young about tobacco, drugs and alcohol. Just as there are teens that will take risks regardless of the potential consequences, there are those who will never take risk. A teen who has decided on his own to not drink and smoke and to delay sex until marriage hardly needs social intervention in the form of education. Education efforts, therefore, best lend themselves to that middle majority that lies between the risk takers and the abstainers.
“An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away” is a refreshing evolution in human thinking, the antithesis of the long-held puritanical nonsense that linked masturbation to blindness and insanity. In fact, unlike tobacco, drugs and alcohol, safe sex is good for the cardio-vascular system and it boosts the immune system, not to mention that fact that if feels damned good. Yes, adolescents should experience orgasm through either masturbation or safe sex just as adults do. The video that follows represents a well done and articulate perspective on this topic.